Author: Anne Marie Miller

  • i’m curious – what does going to church look like?

    barna released a report recently identifying five segments of church attendance.

    from the report,

    “The fact that millions of people are now involved in multiple faith communities – for instance, attending a conventional church one week, a house church the next, and interacting with an online faith community in-between – has rendered the standard measures of “churched” and “unchurched” much less precise.”

    so, out of the following…which segment do you identify with more? if you would rather remain unidentified, just type in anonymous for your name and don’t link back to your blog.

    Unattached – people who had attended neither a conventional church nor an organic faith community (e.g., house church, simple church, intentional community) during the past year. Some of these people use religious media, but they have had no personal interaction with a regularly-convened faith community. This segment represents one out of every four adults (23%) in America. About one-third of the segment was people who have never attended a church at any time in their life.

    Intermittents – these adults are essentially “under-churched” – i.e., people who have participated in either a conventional church or an organic faith community within the past year, but not during the past month. Such people constitute about one out of every seven adults (15%). About two-thirds of this group had attended at least one church event at some time within the past six months.

    Homebodies – people who had not attended a conventional church during the past month, but had attended a meeting of a house church (3%).

    Blenders – adults who had attended both a conventional church and a house church during the past month.
    Most of these people attend a conventional church as their primary church, but many are experimenting with new forms of faith community. In total, Blenders represent 3% of the adult population.

    Conventionals – adults who had attended a conventional church (i.e., a congregational-style, local church) during the past month but had not attended a house church. Almost three out of every five adults (56%) fit this description. This participation includes attending any of a wide variety of conventional-church events, such as weekend services, mid-week services, special events, or church-based classes.

    what does going to church look like for you? how do you think “going to church” will look over the next ten or twenty years as our world gets smaller with technology?

  • and the 10,000th commenter is….

    disclaimer: my mac’s mic sucks. sorry. you’re gonna have to turn it up, baby!

    here you go!

    **also**
    several of you mentioned wanting me to come out and speak to your church/students/college/staff/dog sometime. please email me here and let me know what’s on your mind!

  • the mega 10,000th comment blog-history making giveaway!!

    we are SOMEWHERE close to hitting our 10,000th comment on flowerdust.net.

    who will be the 10,000th commenter? i dunno…but…

    *WHOEVER LEAVES THE 10,000TH COMMENT…I WOULD BE HONORED TO FLY OUT TO WHEREVER YOU LIVE, ON MY OWN DIME, AND SPEND A LITTLE TIME WITH YOU!! GET LUNCH, COFFEE…WHATEVER!*

    now, after typing that, i realize how completely presumptuous that sounds…as if you would actually want a visit from me…

    but, assuming you would like to hang out (as there are SO many of you i would love to meet!)…please comment…and we will get this ball rolling!

    this blog is about YOU. it is YOUR community. and i cannot thank my lucky stars to have interacted with you all on some level. it would be SUCH a treat to get to meet more of you face to face. so…i can’t wait!!

    so…to the 10,000th commenter…i will fly out to your hometown on my own dime at a time that’s mutually convenient and we’ll part-tay.

    *a few rules:

    -48 states…if someone outside the 48 states is the 10,000th comment, the next eligible person will be chosen.
    -the guy rule…i don’t meet with guys alone, so, if a guy wins, someone else must be there!
    -if you comment multiple times, you must wait at least 10 comments before posting again
    -if you live in hawaii, alaska, or overseas…and you would really really really like to win…and you do…i’m willing to come…it’s just the cost of travel keeping me from you. if you can float the difference, heck, i’m there! :)
    -just for a reference…we are somewhere between 0 and 200 comments from hitting 10,000…so, it’s anyone’s game!
    -final approval will be made at my hub’s and my discretion (ie, if your blog is about killing small woodland creatures, or your obsession with chemical warfare agents, we’ll probably pick the next guy…creepy).
    -i’ll announce the winner as soon as we figure out who it is!

    have fun!!!

  • i’m caving in and making a blogroll

    it’s been two years and i have been sans blogroll. it’s time to change…

    if you link to me, let me know, and i’ll link you back…

    also…if you don’t link to me, now is a darn good time to start.

    ha ha…no really. you should start…

    let me know you’re a link lover in the comments and make sure to leave your blog address so i can return the favor!

  • teddy needs you

    EDIT: Thank you! It appears that all three children have been sponsored. You can still sponsor children in Uganda by clicking here!

    There are three children in Uganda who have been waiting over six months for sponsors.

    last time when i posted two children who had been waiting over six months to be sponsored, you guys stepped up and both of them had sponsors within an hour! that is incredible.

    i looked around on compassion’s site a few minutes ago, and found teddy. she lives in uganda. and she’s orphaned. with her two siblings, she lives with her uncle, who is occasionally employed as a farmer.



    teddy is ten years old, and has been waiting for a sponsor for over six months.
    she is approaching a very significant time in her life as she hits adolescence. for her to know you are praying for her will change her world.

    CLICK HERE TO BE TAKEN DIRECTLY TO TEDDY’S SPONSORSHIP PAGE. please don’t let her wait any longer.


    Francis is nine and has four siblings. He has been waiting over six months for a sponsor. CLICK HERE TO GO TO FRANCIS’ PAGE AND SPONSOR HIM IMMEDIATELY!


    Hakiza is twelve and also has four siblings. CLICK HERE TO GO TO HAKIZA’S PAGE AND SPONSOR HIM IMMEDIATELY!

    YOU GUYS ARE FREAKING AWESOME!!!

  • help me write my book

    i LOVE the invaluable feedback you guys have provided when i ask little questions for mad church disease. so, here’s another…

    what, in your opinion, makes an environment healthy?

  • sometimes things just kick you in the pants

    from flibbityfluent

    “Serve the stranger not as a strategy but as an act of love.”

  • a letter to my agent

    my book deadline is february 28 march 14.

    i sent this letter to my agent a few moments ago.

    Oh, my dear Beth.

    I’m sure you have a calendar for each of us. And on that calendar, with all of your experience, you probably have certain days circled in red. These days would represent days like today when I email you and say I am having looking-my-deadline-in-the-eye-induced-panic-attacks.

    Breathe in, breathe out.

    My brain has locked up. My fingers have locked up. And (breathe) I (breathe) have (breathe) two (breathe) weeks?

    I don’t know what agents do on these days. But you do.

    Please send xanax, stat.

    Sincerely yours,
    Anne-Going-To-Hide-Under-My-Bed-Jackson

    your role in this, bloggyfriends? pray…hard…for me! being sick/asleep twenty-one hours a day lately isn’t really helping my schedule.

  • fire breathing demon babies

    i’ve been home sick today (not with infectious stomach parasites like some of my ugandan-travel-mates, rather what i have dubbed a “fire breathing demon baby” that has taken residence in my throat). i have left my bedroom once to get soup and that is it. no energy.

    yet still needing to kind of function for a conference call at 4 pm today.

    here’s what that looked like.

    i can honestly say i have never had a conference call in sweats with a cat sleeping on me.

    and i must be so overridden with ick that i am actually posting that photo….? with no makeup? eek.

    anyway…

    i’ve been playing around on twitter a lot today. so…if you tweet, add me!