Category: India

  • Are You Listening?

    I’ve said it a million times myself.

    “I want to give a voice to the people that don’t have one.”

    But after going to India a few months ago, it began to occur to me that my philosophy is completely off track.

    Everyone has a voice. Even the people who are the most overlooked.

    They have beautiful voices.

    Broken voices.

    Voices pleading for help.

    Voices singing with hope.

    Even their silence says something…

    The phrase “I want to give a voice to the people that don’t have one” has to go.

    It’s dehumanizing.

    THEY have a voice.

    The problem is WE don’t listen.

  • My Toxic Bottle of Water

    I have a terrible habit of not finishing beverages. Size doesn’t matter. Whether it’s a 16 oz bottle of water or an 8 oz tiny can of Diet Coke, I don’t finish it.

    Bottled water for some reason takes the brunt of my compulsion. It’s embarrassing to admit but there are times where I’ll just take a sip or two of a bottle of water and never touch it again.

    Such was the case with the bottle of water in my car. It was the middle of August and on this particular day I grabbed a bottle of water on my way out to run errands. I took two sips and it stayed boiling in my car ever since.

    On my way home from visiting a friend a few days later, I realized I was extremely thirsty. I hadn’t had a bit of water all day.

    Diet Cherry Dr. Pepper? bottled-water

    Yes.

    Lots of sips.

    Water?

    No.

    As I looked around my car, this forlorn bottle of water sat in my passenger seat. It was the only relief in sight and my forty-five minute drive stuck in bumper-to-bumper traffic began to feel like six hours as the sun began to burn my left arm.

    “It’s not like it’s contaminated” I reassured myself. “It’s just really, really warm. That’s all. You can drink it. Come on.”

    I unscrewed the blue cap, letting a bit of the air out of the bottle and took a gulp.

    Warm and plasticky.

    Delightful.

    I began wondering how healthy this water could actually be if all I tasted was plastic. I thought about the segment on The Today Show where they compared the different numbers of the different plastics and I tried to remember which ones were toxic. Because I’m sure whatever it was I was drinking was not safe for consumption.

    The heat of the water I was drinking, the droplets of sweat forming in the small of my back, and the sun being magnified by my untinted windows took me back to my trip to India earlier this year.

    And this hot little bottle of water made me think of a little boy I met named Tushar.

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    Tushar is a five year old who lives three hours outside of Kolkata. A few months ago, I began sponsoring him through an organization called Compassion International.

    When I was in India, a few days before I left, I had the chance to meet Tushar and his father. They took a train from their village into the city. The translator introduced us and I realized Tushar’s dad was holding a bag and would occasionally take out a bottle of water for his son.

    The bottle of water wasn’t like anything you or I would see, much less drink from, here in the States. There was no label. The outside was scratched.

    Yet what was most surprising was what kind of water the bottle contained.

    If I didn’t know better, I would think it was sun tea with lemon. It was a light brown, with little pieces of something floating in it.

    But it was Tushar’s water. His drinking water. Water that was so precious, his father helped him ration it throughout their trip.

    tusharAfter a visit to Science City, a museum that would be considered totally odd and possibly unsafe by Western standards, we went to a building that would be parallel to a Western mall. It had stores and a food court.

    And it was lunch time.

    Our host went to some of the restaurants to get us all something to drink. She came back with ice-cold bottled water.

    Clean, never opened, cold bottled water.

    Tushar’s dad reached across the table to open his bottle. Tushar leaned forward to take his first sip and when he grabbed the bottle for the first time, he immediately dropped it back on the table like it had bit him, almost spilling it. He pulled away and giggled.

    I was a little confused but very much intrigued by his reaction. He wiped the condensation off his hand and reached forward for the bottle of water again. This time he didn’t grab it. He merely touched it with a couple of his fingers.

    And Tushar giggled again.

    Finally I realized something. He’s never touched anything cold before.

    The area of India that he lives in rarely sees temperatures below 60 degrees.

    The cold surprised him.

    But in a good way.

    Playfully, I poured cold water from my bottle into the tiny blue cap and splashed him with it.

    He. Freaked. Out.

    We continued our little water fight until his dad moved his bottle closer to him, as to say ,”This is for drinking and not for playing,” and Tushar sat up, knowing his dad was serious, and took a sip.

    His eyes got wide as he felt the cold water slide down the back of his throat. When it reached his stomach, he grabbed his belly and grinned and giggled.

    Drinking cold water was such a new experience for this little boy.

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    So, here I was, between Nashville and Franklin, Tennessee on I-65 contemplating the level of “poison” in my completely safe water and I wondered about Tushar and what he’s doing today. I wondered about his bottle of water. I doubt he was drinking anything nearly as clean or as available as I was. In fact, I doubt he had tasted water as cold or as clean since our time in the food court.

    I held back the tears that so wanted to escape and travel down my face because of the unfairness of it all.

    I wonder how many bottles of water I’ve carelessly and needlessly thrown away when a little boy and his family are grateful to have their dirty water in a bottle they found and probably share and hold dear.

    For Pete’s sake. Even my dog has access to cleaner water than Tushar.

    I can’t send Tushar clean water in the mail. I can’t take it to him or even make sure that he has access to it.

    It’s a helpless feeling.

    And it’s easy to ignore because it is so overwhelming.

    What can I do? I can give Tushar a voice. I can speak for him by telling his story. You’re reading about him now. Maybe you’ll want to share his story too.

    We may not be able to fix every problem we see, but we can allow the stories we hear to remind us of the incredible responsibility we have to share the needs of a broken world.

    These stories can awaken us and inspire us to act: We can donate money to a water charity or go on a trip to build a well or to take some clean water to the homeless in our own cities and towns.

    Now that you know, what will you do?

     

  • So whatcha gonna do?

    All of us bloggerfolk made it back to the States uneventfully…well, as uneventfully as one can when traveling between three airports in India before finally heading home. I am looking forward to taking today to unplug, relax, and reconnect with life back here in Nashville.

    One of the things we did right before we left was sit around a table and simply talk about how the trip has affected each of us. Shaun told us a story about how Compassion International started.

    Back in the 50’s, a preacher named Everett Swanson went to Korea. Driving through a town, he saw piles of war orphans huddled together to keep warm. The military would drive up to these groups and make them scatter, not wanting anyone to discover the huge orphan problem the country faced. The children that didn’t survive the cold were thrown into the back of military trucks like sacks of trash.

    Obviously upset by what he saw, Swanson sought counsel. The key question someone asked him was,

    “Now that you’ve seen what you’ve seen, what are you going to do about it?”

    Swanson took that and began Compassion International. What’s great to see is now Korea isn’t a country where Compassion children are sponsored, but one that sponsors children – like the US, or Canada, or the UK, or Australia. It’s completely turned around. Some of Korea’s largest churches are pastored by people who grew up sponsored through Compassion.

    If you’ve been around my blog at all over the last year and a half, you know I still talk about the Uganda trip, so needless to say, this is not my final post about Compassion or this trip. And for the second time in a year and a half, I’ve seen first hand what something as simple as around $1 a day can do in the life of a child.? It’s been an honor to take you on this journey with us as well.

    To close out the series of posts for this trip, I’d like to leave you with this thought:

    “Now that you’ve seen what you’ve seen, what are you going to do about it?”

    I personally hope you’ll sponsor a child with Compassion.

  • My Last Post

    Seriously.

    I have no idea how in the world I am ever going to blog again after a day like today.

    I haven’t laughed harder – or cried harder – in my life.

    And it all has to do with this little boy.

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    His name is Tushar. He’s five. He is one of the children I sponsor through Compassion.

    Our day started out pretty simply.

    We met.

    Then…well…this madness ensues.

    (Watch it. It will seriously be the best minute of your day. I dare you to disagree with me).

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    And, well, after five hours of that…there’s nothing left to say but this.

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    Only $32 a month to give this little boy and his family hope, food, care, education, prayers, letters, photos, laughter, rest, love?

    After a day like today, I’d pay a million.

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  • A Day in the Life of a Compassion Blogger

    Today was an INCREDIBLE day.

    We spent all day with our individual sponsor children. I had the chance to meet Tushar, mine and The Hub’s sponsor child…who was the most ADD, hyperactive, bright, hilarious five year old I have EVER EVER met.

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    We are about to head out and meet with some LDP (Leadership Development Program) students. The Compassion Leadership Development Program is a unique program that targets these outstanding high school graduates who want to pursue a post-secondary education but lack the money to do it.

    Anyway, until I can find the time to put everything together and introduce you to Tushar (because trust me – you do NOT want to miss this kid!!!) I thought I’d leave you with a quick video of what a typical day looks like here in India. Several of you asked some questions in the live chat we did last night (this morning for us) and I hope this gives you a glimpse inside our day.

    Sans all the crying we do back at the hotel.

    And the 120 degree weather.

    And all of our BO.

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    The project in this video still had about 90 kids who haven’t been sponsored. If you’d like to meet some of them, you can click here.

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  • Near to the Brokenhearted

    Just in case you think I have it all figured out (which I pray you don’t) I’m just going to be honest here and tell you what’s in my head. It may not be the most uplifting, call to action post you’ve ever experienced, but it’s me. And it’s what I’m experiencing right now on this trip, which is what I’m supposed to be writing about.

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    Tonight, I laid back on the bed in the quiet, with the sound of dripping water outside my window and soft music flowing in my ears. Throughout the evening, I had texted and emailed a few friends, asking them for prayer.

    The darkness was getting too much for me.

    The phrase from scripture “He is near to the brokenhearted” kept coming to mind. Over and over and over and over again.

    Brokenhearted?

    Yeah, a little.

    Or maybe a lot.

    I’m still not sure.

    So many questions…if I am brokenhearted over the things I saw today, is God near me? If he is…why don’t I sense him? How brokenhearted could I truly be, lying in my plush blankets after seeing babies sleep alone on cardboard cots? How do I think my life is really dark when I know millions of families are going to bed tonight without getting a drop of clean water? Is God near to them? Where is he?

    In spite of the questions, I still see God near. I see him in the eyes of the children we’ve met. The unconditional smiles and hand-holding. The beautiful voices, the excitement, the hope.

    He’s more than near…he’s here.



  • Frozen

    It’s difficult to think one could be frozen when it’s 115 degrees outside.

    When your body is drenched in sweat and covered in smoke and smog and the warm hands of children.

    But I am.

    Physically, no. I’m not frozen. Although the room from which I type this post is easily under 60 degrees (oh, where art thou, space heater?) mentally, emotionally.

    I am.

    Completely.

    Frozen.

    I have no words to describe what I’ve seen today. What I’ve touched. Tasted. Hugged. Sang. Clapped. Eaten. Smelled.

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    These bloggers around me, they’re sharp. Somehow they’re able to process these things in a beautiful way.

    Quickly.

    Me?

    Not today.

    I need more time.

    I need more of Him.

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    And yet there are so many needs, I can’t believe I have no words.

  • Letters of Love

    Your $32 a month does amazing things for a child.

    Education. Medical care. Spiritual care. Food.

    And it doesn’t just influence the child you sponsor, it influences the whole family.

    Pretty much anyone of us can send $32/month and not think twice about it.

    And as that $32 represents amazing opportunities for a child, as Spence says below, it’s the letters that make dreams happen.

    We visited the Compassion East India offices the day before yesterday. They receive over 1000 letters a week from sponsors.

    Here are a few videos that show you what happens with those letters after you send them off in the mail.

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    The first one is a quick video from Compassions’ East India offices.

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    The second one is of a home visit where we ask if the little girl is sponsored. She doesn’t just say yes…watch what happens.

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    I know many of you already sponsor children – I’d love to hear about them! Please share their stories in the comments

    Also…if you haven’t sponsored a child yet, you can meet the ones who need sponsors here.

    And I urge you, if you sponsor a child…write them a letter.
    Send them some photos or stickers. And if you don’t have one of the letter forms handy, did you know you can write to them online or even download the official stationary? You can also send them a little extra gift!

    Who knows? They totally might buy a sheep with it.

    These letters make dreams come true. Your words have the power to do amazing things!

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  • Anne

    Her name is Anne.

    She has fallen victim to some bad curry.

    Or maybe it was the pizza.

    Either way.

    She wears no makeup today.

    She doesn’t fix her hair.

    Her eyes are red because she’s been crying.

    And her bed has been one of her two closest friends.

    (I’ll let you guess what her other friend has been).

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    Two of us bloggers had to stay behind due to gastrointestinal issues. It just seemed like the smartest thing to do. Our project was out two hours on bumpy roads, and the heat index is to reach 115 degrees today.

    Probably not so good for those who are naturally dehydrating themselves.

    On to Anne.

    In early 2008, she had it all. An amazing job working alongside two of the most respected and innovative pastors in the American church. She had a good salary, a cushy downtown apartment with red walls and hardwood floors. She had just purchased her adulthood dream car.

    And sure, she was generous — at least in her own American way. She tithed to her church, gave above and beyond for new projects, and sponsored a Compassion child in Ethiopia. (The one who bought a sheep with the EXTRA money she sent).

    Then in February, she touched poverty on a trip to Africa. She smelled it. For a week, no matter where she turned, it was there.

    They had eyes of hope, but skin and bones for flesh.

    They had dreams, but no clean water.

    They were covered in potential, but they had no clean clothes.

    And on this trip, something inside her broke. Sixteen months later, it’s never been fixed.

    Anne quit her job. And moved to Nashville where she had friends with like-minded pursuits and opportunities. Now, using the internet, and video, and Twitter, and Facebook, she wants to take you as close to these under-resourced areas as possible.

    You may never touch the rough hand of a young, hungry child.

    Or see a two week old dying in a crib in an orphanage in Kolkata.

    You may never smell what raw sewer and smoke and smog smell like on a hellishly hot and humid day.

    But it is my prayer for you that something will break.

    Reading our stories, and learning about the children and the families and the culture we are experiencing isn’t enough.

    Yes, I am more than amazed at the response as some of you have connected to one story or another. I am amazed that close to 200 children have been sponsored because of this trip, and over 1400 have been sponsored as a result of all blogging trips.

    But as Shaun said yesterday, it’s not about the money.

    It’s about the relationship you and a child a world away will have. It’s about them hearing they are loved. It’s about praying for them. And knowing they are praying and thinking about you.

    See that? Those are sponsor letters. This Compassion office in East India processes over 1000 letters to children a week.

    For me, over the last year and a half, it’s been about living with less. It has taken time, but I have cut my expenses literally in half. In the summer, I will be moving into an 800 sq ft, 1 bedroom cottage thanks to my friends who have so graciously rented it to me for a more than reasonable price. My credit cards are paid off. I’ve canceled things like cable and wireless cards and I’m even weaning myself off my beloved Lunesta to save another $50/month.

    I tell you this not in pride, but because as I have developed these relationships with the sponsored children I have, they continue to affect me. They continue to bring me to new levels of “comfort.” For me, “comfort” doesn’t mean what it used to mean.

    We can’t be comfortable the way we used to be.

    I’m not going to try and passive-aggressively manipulate you. This trip is about getting children sponsored, yes. Not only for the financial freedom $32 brings them a month, but for the financial freedom it will bring you as you store up in treasures elsewhere. I’m not talking about heaven. I’m talking about Africa, India, Burkina Faso.

    Your own home.

    This girl named Anne is not perfect. She still spends far too much money on clothes and hair product. (Just ask my roommate on this trip). This girl still makes decisions that are meaningless and selfish.

    But she also believes with all of her heart that one child sponsorship will not only change the life of someone across the world, it will change yours in ways you can never imagine.

    If you feel stuck…trust me on this. Just trust me. Because I’ve been there.? There is freedom in truth. There is freedom in carrying the burdens of others.

    You will be amazed.

    I promise.

    Here’s the link to look at the children that need your help.

    This is my ask.

    The rest is up to you.

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