Category: Church

  • Follow the Leader

    If you’ve read my blog for any amount of time, you’ll know the tension I feel between how much “business” should be incorporated in our church organization structure. I was reading over on my buddy Los’ blog, and he has this great quote:

    Mark Dever, in A Display of God’s Glory, quotes the interaction of a Japanese businessman with a visiting Australian…

    “…Whenever I meet a Buddhist leader, I meet a holy man. Whenever I meet a Christian leader, I meet a manager…” (originally from reformissionary)

    Please do not read this as a cynical jab at gifted administrators and managers. Biblically, people with those gifts are integral to the Church’s survival. But obviously, the outside world often perceives the church as a machine.

    I’d love to hear your thoughts on this…

    1. Do you think churches have always focused on leadership & management the way they do now, or is it because of the increase of media attention & technology?

    2. Have you ever been to a church leadership conference? What did you walk away with?

    3. Are we too busy worrying about leadership and in doing so, neglecting our call to follow?

  • %*@%^!

    There appears to be a trend catching on in this postmodern clique of Gen Y’ers: Swearing.

    I remember the first time I read a four-letter word on another “clog” (church blog). I thought it was so amazing and remember thinking,

    “That is what it’s all about! If I only had the cajones to be that authentic – that real with people…fearlessly staring down our legalistic forefathers. And, if Donald Miller can say bastard in his book, well, heck – no – well, hell, I can say whatever I want to! Yeah! – no – Hell, yeah!

    Many of my real life friends and virtual cohorts have taken the liberty in their verbiage. After all, it’s not about rules. It’s about Jesus. And love. And relationships. Whether or not we use soft swear words isn’t life or death. Nobody’s losing their salvation. Those who are more “conservative” just need to let it go…

    Right?

    Maybe not…

    I was reflecting back on the summer a couple years back when I got my eyebrow pierced. It was my seventh piercing. If you’re not familiar with the culture in Kansas, piercings aren’t exactly acceptable. In the back of my mind, I knew this – but I wanted to be different. I was working full time in student ministries, and I wanted to relate to some of the skater kids I worked with. And I wanted to present a non-conformist attitude to the Banana Republic wearing culture I lived in.

    Ironically, more and more people were getting facial piercings and jumping on the same rebellious, body modification bandwagon I was on. It may have been nonconforming in intent, but the truth of the matter was I was just as guilty as conforming to that particular culture as the Johnson County soccer moms were to theirs.

    In the same vein, there are those of us who intend to be authentic. To be real. To show the mess, the dirt, the rawness of our imperfect lives and need for grace. But I really have to wonder – how much of it is necessary? Do we really have to cuss or brag about our liberties to drink in moderation while expecting those with different viewpoints to get over it and realize we are “just being real?” Are we being real – or are we just being…edgy?

    We walk around donning our “It’s about loving people” halos but seem to neglect – whether we like it or not – fundamental truths about living like Christ in all aspects, in addition to the clear command to love.

    Are we really being honest when we do these things, or are we just conforming to an edgier fad of Christian living? More importantly, are we accurately representing Christ?

  • A Nagging Question

    Over the last year and a half – maybe longer – I have been plagued with a nagging question that leaves my spirit restless and the more I pray…the more I seek…the more I try and listen…the more the restlessness refuses to leave, begging me to keep praying, keep seeking, and keep listening.

    My background is in communication design. Anything having to do with visually communicating a message is where my natural niche resides. I promote and advertise anything because it’s what I naturally do.

    Since in the last few years I’ve been fulfilling that role in as a vocational church employee, I often walk the line between what is necessary as far as “marketing the church” and “is this necessary at all?” I struggle because marketing, in the sense of advertising, happens whether it is intentional or not. And I struggle because having intentional plans is a good thing, even when it comes to the message of the church.

    But has the local church taken church marketing too far?

    I did a Technorati search on “Church Marketing” and came across this blog. John O’Keefe writes:

    it is easy to sell, “come to our church, our pastor is handsome”
    it is not easy to sell, “come to a faith that tells you to love the unlovable”

    it is easy to sell, “come to our church, we have great music”
    it is hard to sell a faith that says, “come to a faith that seeks you to be silent”

    it is easy to sell, “come to our church, we have some great programs”
    it is hard to sell a faith that says, “come to a faith that tells you you must be active in reaching the needs of others”

    it is easy to sell, “come to our church, we have a wonderful and clean building – with a ton of parking”
    it is hard to sell a faith that says, “come to a faith where we will meet on a hill side, and you will need to walk five miles to get there”

    it is easy to sell, “come to our church, God loves you”
    it is hard to sell a faith that says, “come to God, and by doing so love others – even to the cost of your life”

    it is easy to sell, “come to our church, we love america”
    it is hard to sell a faith that says, “live for the kingdom of God, and love those who hate you.”

    I couldn’t have said it better myself.

    As a marketer, I see the need for target markets, for knowing your audience, and other marketing principles you learn. But as a Christ-follower, I often wonder if by marketing the church, we’ve bowed down to the American consumeristic mindset which has evolved into a slogan-filled, attention-grabbing, who can come up with the most polished looking piece of marketing collateral-tsunami.

    Isn’t our target market PEOPLE? Does it really matter if those people are ages 30-45 with an annual household income of $85,000, with 2.5 kids and a dog who shop at Pottery Barn and eat at Panera? Does the gaping hole in their soul, longing for a Love really exist soley after the fact their houses cost $190,000 and they drive a minivan? Can’t the love of God shine through our lives more than a four-color, glossy, die-cut postcard?

    I think we have it backwards sometimes. I really, really do.

  • Howdy, Ya’ll

    So, I’m moving to Texas March 25th. Working at Lake Pointe Church in Rockwall, living in Sachse which is a few miles northwest of there.

    Howd’ya like them apples?

  • Weekend Thought…Authority & Your Beliefs

    Below is a completely hypothetical and fictional situation about a church volunteer named Joe. I ask for your comments regarding the principle expressed and not whether you agree with the leader in the story or Joe. It’s not about who is right or has the better idea (because that’s all opinion) but what you think is Biblical and wise for Joe to do in the situation.

    Joe is a graphics volunteer at a medium sized local church in the Pacific Northwest. He’s designing a brochure for his church. The brochure is supposed to communicate what the church is about (the atmosphere, enviroment, etc.) to those who don’t go to church but aren’t necessarily opposed to the idea. For the sake of using church words…we’ll call this audience “seeker” in nature.

    The staff person he volunteers for at his church gives him direction on how the brochure should look as far as appearance and content. The direction his leader provides doesn’t sit well with Joe. Both the leader and Joe think the piece needs to reflect a variety of people interacting, but the leader thinks the brochure should show more what the service looks like (people worshipping, singing or listening to the speaker, maybe using stock photos of people praying) but Joe thinks that the piece should connect with the audience in a not so “churchy” manner. Not because Joe wants to hide anything, but he feels as if the piece intially connects with the audience, they are more apt to visit and experience what the service is like so they can make up their own mind. He also thinks that using photos of people praying kind of adulterates what prayer truly is.

    Joe is confused. He wonders if he is overreacting. He knows he should respect the authority placed over him, but at the same time, he feels very strongly that this brochure shouldn’t be “set up.” Even after thinking about it for a while, his spirit is still red-flagging him about doing the piece. He’s afraid if he talks to his leader about it, the leader will think he doesn’t support the vision of the church or that specific area and he’ll be asked to find another place to serve in the church. But he also feels that he could not, with a clear conscious, design this piece.

    What should Joe do? Why?

  • Imagine (More)

    I saw you in the curve of the moon
    In the shadow cast across my room
    You heard me in my tune
    When I just heard confusion
    -U2

    God can do anything, you know–far more than you could ever imagine or guess or request in your wildest dreams!
    -Ephesians 3:20

    Today has been a day full of things I could have never (ever) imagined…Thank you, Lord!

  • When did 17 year olds become so smart?

    I got this in an email from a friend of mine today. Wise words from a someone who’s not old enough to vote. :)

    “The church will continue to lose people from the next generation if the don’t incorporate their visions into worshiping the God of all generations. That doesn’t mean just trying something “slightly edgy” every once in a while. It means grasping the way the young culture worships God, and transforming the picture of what “church” looks like. God is going to stay the same through all of it. It doesn’t matter if we’re worshipping in a new and different way so long as God’s getting the Glory.”

  • Origins

    So, who is going to Origins in May?

    (Origins is an amazing conference at Mosaic in LA)

    I am not sure if I am going yet. I have asked the powers that be. And hopefully will find out soon.

  • Communion Ideas

    I’ve been asked to come up with some ideas for stations where people can take communion, which will be set up all around a room. So far, I like the ideas of a “cross” station, where you would focus in on reflecting upon the cross and a station where spouses or friends can serve each other. Any other ideas?