Category: Church

  • Shortage of Power

    I’m happily in isolation on an island that can only be reached by seaplane or ferry. During this week away, I’ve asked several friends to fill in for me this week. Hopefully you’ll meet some new voices of people I admire.

    Today?s post comes from Crystal Renaud. She was but a mere high school senior when I met her, seven or so years ago. Now she is growing into a passionate and brave young woman with a heart for helping women discover and embrace their God given gifts.

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    Shortage of Power

    Growing up, I was certainly a tomboy and even through high school I battled with the role of being a woman. But the older I get, the more I embrace my womanhood. What makes me special is that I am a woman. The world wasn?t finished before Eve and I think we as women we need to feel empowered to on our God-given role.

    On more than one occasion I have read and heard about how much the enemy hates women. More so than he hates men. But why?

    Because he is jealous of her. Before the creation of Eve, Lucifer was the most beautiful thing God ever created and he knew that Eve was more beautiful than he. He didn?t go to her because she was weaker than Adam. He went to her because he wanted to destroy her.

    But it sort of backfired on him.

    Yes, she was deceived, but in Genesis 3 God says to the serpent, ?Because you have done this (serpent deceiving Eve), cursed are you above all the livestock and all the wild animals! You will crawl on your belly and you will eat dust all the days of your life. And I will put enmity (hatred) between you and the woman.?

    Perhaps the serpent thought God would destroy her for him. Or that God would change his mind about having created her. I don?t know. But instead, God further condemned him and further raised Eve up to do battle.

    So, not only do women have the word of God in them, we also have the calling and anointing to do battle. And even now the enemy knows we were created for battle against him. Which is why we are the ones he comes after.

    Yet, society is robbing us of that power.

    For too long (especially in my generation) women have been given mixed signals about who we are and what our role is. Some are told we?re in competition with men?in business, ministry and even in relationships. And some of us have been told we?re merely for show and pleasing men sexually.

    Whichever voice we?ve heard most, these extremes are creating a generation of women who are sexually confused, angry at men and our relationships with God are strained or non-existent.

    Jeremiah 31:21-23 says, ?How long will you waver, O faithless daughter? For the LORD has created a new thing on the earth: a woman encircles a man.?

    This doesn?t mean a woman is to rule over a man? or to be ruled over? no. It means she will stand beside him, stand with him, surround him, and even protect him in spiritual warfare. And that?s a powerful statement.

    Joel 2 speaks of ?the fig tree,? ?the grapevine? and ?the olive oil.? I believe this is what God?s women are made of. The oil representing the anointing, the fig tree representing the sweetness, and the wine (or grapevine) representing the new thing.

    When God-fearing women begin manifesting these things in their families, their churches and the world, the enemy will be filled with terror. He knows that women will impact their world for God, just as the early church did in Acts 2.

    And that?s a whole lot better than the old ?sugar and spice and everything nice.?

    There?s a quote that says, ?Live your life in such a way that when your feet hit the floor in the morning, Satan shudders and says, ?Oh no, she?s awake.??

    What do you think? Agree? Disagree? Has our culture of gender confusion and role reversal robbed us of our true call to do battle? What can be done to regain what’s been stolen?

  • Lost in Church

    I’m happily in isolation on an island that can only be reached by seaplane or ferry. During this week away, I’ve asked several friends to fill in for me this week. Hopefully you’ll meet some new voices of people I admire.

    Today’s post comes from Lynse Leanne. I met Lynse when I was visiting Nashville for a conference a few years ago. Somehow I ended up in her wedding and she’s ended up sleeping on my air mattress and we’ve been friends ever since.? Lynse has some serious cajones for being such a young girl. R-E-S-P-E-C-T.

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    Lost in Church

    This is a phrase I have been thinking a lot about lately.? The more I talk to people in church ministry the more I see this common thread throughout those ?ministering.?

    I don?t know that these words have been used to explain it, but I think that so many church employees are lost in church.

    Now, before you get on your spiritual high horses and ream me for implying that you are not saved let me unpack what I mean.? I don?t mean that you are ?lost? in the term the church uses?.I mean have you lost who you are in the machine of the church?

    Let me give you a bit of my story.? I have been employed by a very successful church for about 5 years. It has been enjoyable?.but the longer I was there the more discontent I have felt.? The more I began to hate what I did?.and more than that who I had become.? I was too busy to minister alongside my husband, too busy to connect with my friends out side of the four church walls.? Through much thought I realized that I had lost myself in the machine. And to no fault of the church, I had surrendered myself into the machine and lost me.? I became lost in church.

    I personally think that I got so behind the business of what we were doing and forgot who God had called me to be.? Those He had called me to reach.? The calling and dreams he had placed inside of my heart.

    I was lost.

    No dreams, no vision, and lost in what I was doing as Lynse and not as “Lynse the church employee.”

    Because what I had forgotten is that God created me for a reason and to reach people.? Yes, he called me to serve my local church and reach people there, but He also made me with a specific calling and purpose?.and I had lost that.

    And for some reason I don?t think that I am the only one who over time has become lost in the church.? Business, tasks and accomplishments is what I was lost to?I had lost the day to day relationships and human contact with those outside of the church.

    How can we as ?church leaders? keep from getting lost in church and lost in the machine?

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  • Some Conferences You Should Know About

    The parallel for Back to School for church leaders is Back to Conference.

    There are several conferences coming up this Fall that I thought I’d let you know about. I’ll be at all but one of them, sometimes speaking.

    Christian Web Conference(Biola U, La Mirada, CA) September 11 & 12 (*Speaking)

    Innovate 09(Granger, IN) September 24 & 25 (*I’ll be in NYC on vacation…but you should go!)
    A conference best experienced in team, Innovate delivers hard-earned, practical next steps no matter where you?re located, whether you?re a paid staff or unpaid volunteer, part of a church of 50 or 8,000 ? it?s unique. **I have THREE free passes to giveaway! To enter, just tell me in the comments that you’d like to win and I’ll choose three random winners!

    Catalyst(Atlanta, GA) October 7-9 (*Speaking!)
    I’ll be speaking in one of the Catalyst Labs on October 7 and hosting Catalyst Backstage on the 8 & 9. TODAY (8/27) is the last day to get the early bird discount! Hurry!

    Story Chicago (Aurora, IL) – October 28 & 29 (*Not speaking, but I’ll be around!)
    Some of my favorite communicators will be speaking and one of my favorite people in the world is the genius behind this event.

    National Outreach Convention (San Diego, CA) – November 4-6 (*I’m the only girl speaking…please bring chocolate).

    Lead Now/Fusion (Dallas, TX & Satellite Broadcast everywhere!) – November 5-7 (*Speaking. Three times I think.)
    We live in a world where followers of Christ appear to be frozen in their faith, unable to take the necessary steps required to initiate true life transformation. We believe the problem is big, but the solution is even bigger.

    DIRT (Little Rock, AR) – November 10 & 11 (*Speaking. Three times I think.)
    Dirt is for the video and graphics guys (and girls), worship teams, creative staff, pastors (because you know all this is your fault anyway), sound and lighting crews, actors, weekend series developers, web and copy writers, and multi-site churches.

    (And then I am going to take a really, really long nap…)

    Will I see you around?

  • Update on my Surgery

    About 10 am, I was taken back to the Cardio Cath lab.

    Which was about 30 degrees. Below zero.

    They stuck me in all awkward places with little pads and wires and gave me some lovely medicine where I dozed off to Coldplay. I woke up once when my heart was pounding out of my chest. Evidently, my earlier guessing of my heart rate maxing at 190-200 was wrong, as they easily triggered it to 220-240BPM. They gave some more drugs and a couple hours later, I was put back up in my room, almost fully awake, and feeling much better.

    My leg, where they inserted the catheter, isn’t sore (granted, I’m on some pain killers) and I’m on bed rest for another 3 hours or in order to let that artery heal.

    So the diagnosis was pretty correct. WHAT A RELIEF!

    He assumed I had an extra pathway on my AV Node (the main node that receives electricity in your heart) and sure enough, there it was. However it was SO close to the AV Node they couldn’t burn it fully…he froze some of if, which I guess is safer. Sometimes when they burn the extra pathway so close to the AV Node they accidentally burn it completely, which would require me to have a pacemaker.

    MMM, no thanks!

    After they fixed that pathway, they retested my heart and lo and behold – ANOTHER pathway that shouldn’t have been there! TWO extra pathways? No wonder my heart would shoot up into such a high rate so quickly!

    This one was in a very safe place (considering) so they ablated that one right away. They tried to get my heart into another arrhythmia and at that point, it didn’t!

    For the few months, he expects my heart to still flutter a bit as my brain relearns my heart, which is totally safe. At least it shouldn’t be hitting 200+ BPM after a couple minutes of exertion.

    He wants me to start exercising slow but over the next month, I should be able to run, bike, whatever! I’m hoping I’ll get a chance to kayak in the Orcas Islands when I’m up there in a few weeks.

    Thank you SO MUCH for the unbelievable amount of prayers and support over the last week. I have never felt so prayed for in my life!

    Hopefully tomorrow I will be discharged and on my way to a much more active life!

    Much love,

    Anne

    (PS – please show grace if there are any typos. I am on some loopy meds as I write this!) :)

  • Oh Yeah? Well, My Box had Donald Miller & Michael Hyatt in it.

    Last week, like many others, I received a mysterious box in the mail from my friend Ben Arment, Purveyor of Extraordinary Experiences and genius behind the Story Conference.

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    The box did not let down.

    You may have seen some other bloggers document their box opening experiences.

    And it’s not like I’m really competitive or anything, but even though their boxes contained some amazing things, my box had author Donald Miller and Thomas Nelson CEO Michael Hyatt in it.

    And a couple video cameras.

    And a tripod.

    Yeah, that’s right.

    Booyah.

    How all that fit in the box, I’m not really sure. I know Don and Mike are both pretty athletic, so maybe that helped them contort and mold into it. After picking all the white styrofoam peanuts off their clothes and stretching out a bit, they sat down and I had the opportunity to ask them a few questions about Don’s new book, about the development of story, and what they would be talking about at Story.

    Here’s what they had to say. (And maybe I was exaggerating just a little bit on them fitting in the box. Maybe Don was just in Nashville where Mike already is and the stars aligned and we were able to shoot this video and there was no contorting involved).

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    Two story experts in one video. Pretty amazing, huh?

    What I love about story is it doesn’t force. It simply guides you down a path and ebbs and flows. You can learn so much from a story but you’re never spoon fed easy answers.

    Who’s your favorite story teller? It doesn’t have to be an author…it can be a photographer, a musician, a poet, a speaker, or a mom.

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  • Having a Baby at Work?

    Yesterday I read about a rescue mission in South Asia on IJM’s website. The rescue included a mother and her one day old baby.

    Today our staff, in cooperation with the local police, were able to bring many laborers out of a slavery facility. One of the laborers was a woman who had been forced to work up to the moment of delivering her baby (without a doctor – the owner refused), and then forced to continue work immediately following. She was unable even to pause to bathe her newborn or to get food for herself. Today, the day of this rescue, the baby is 1 day old.

    Tears swell up in my eyes as I begin to think about the mother. I wonder what she was like as a little girl. I wonder if she’s even very old right now. I wonder how she was captured and how many hours she is forced to work before she sleeps in a small, unsanitary room with other slaves. I wonder if she was raped and that’s how she became pregnant. I wonder if she had morning sickness. I wonder if they made her work after he water broke. I wonder who cut the umbilical cord or if she was beaten while she was in labor. I wonder what she thought about as she was forced to get up and work and if she could see her baby in the corner all alone.

    I wonder how many other women experience this every day and nobody knows where – or who – they are.

    All of those things I wonder…But I do know this.

    I know this woman is now free. This mother is now free. Her child is now free.

    And I know we need to be on our faces pleading for their protection.

    For their freedom.

    Pleading for them.

    Because I know their voices are oppressed….

    ….And I also know there is hope.

  • Are You Hooked? The Christian Designer Drug

    Once again, I’ve found myself so easily wrapped up in doing, that I’ve strayed away from being.

    Pray for this person. Counsel this person. Preach on Sunday here and there. Encourage church leaders. Help some friends. Squeeze in some Bible reading. Turn my journal into a check list. Study Ezra backwards and forwards for my book. Go to church. Sing some stuff. Try to focus on the words. Try and make them resonate in my heart. Try not to wonder about what that weird thing is on the floor of the stage. Why is it there? Can we remove it between services? Oh, there’s a typo in that song. Pray with someone else after a service.

    Go home.

    Take a nap.

    A long, long nap.

    Hear me out. There is nothing wrong with naps. But when my “spiritual life” becomes exhausting, I think I’m missing out on something.

    It starts out small. I feel myself straying, just a little. Knowing I should be spending some time alone, in solititude, in a closet, with the One who restores. Instead, I feel the pressure of a book deadline looming. Of the boxes yet to be unpacked. So I pull a little bit away.

    Slowly, I realize I’m far off the pavement. I panic. I need a fix. I look around desperately. Where’s my Jesus? Crap. I lost him. Where is he? Oh, well, I can find him in doing this good thing. In going to church. Pray pray pray. Thumb through my devotional. Has it really been since May since I opened this? Read read read.

    Phew.

    That was close.

    I find myself turning religious activity into a Christian designer drug. I feel guilty, a little empty, and desperate so I opt for the quick fix. The problem? It’s like any other addiction (and trust me, I speak from experience). It only lasts a little while. You develop a tolerance. You need more. More often. It may temporarily kill the craving, but it’s not filling you with the abundant experience you’re intended to have in your faith.

    When I wrestled with various addictions, I was erratic. I didn’t think clearly. Addicts are never in their right mind. You simply do what you have to do in order to feel normal again. To feel like everyone else around you.

    Again.

    In our fast-paced, quick-fix, get-it-now-and-feel-better culture, I fear that many of us have fallen into a pattern of addiction to Christian designer drugs. A 90 minute experience on the weekend. Obligatory service. Routine and mundane “disciplines.” Saying yes to everything around us to fill that hole that only one thing can fill.

    Resting in a Redeemer.

    It’s not an instant feel good drug. It doesn’t alter your mood. But it provides long-term, growing, sustaining, life giving (to others…) health and energy.

    I need to begin recovery. Again. From the things that are, by all outward appearances good…and fall into something that I’ll never be able to tangibly grasp, but that will transform my soul into something lovely and great and generous.

    And hopefully I’m not alone. And hopefully, we can do this…together.

  • BOOK GIVEAWAY: Busted by Fred von Kamecke

    I am not a girl with answers.

    As much as I tend to live in a very black and white world simply due to my nature of being, not everything has a black and white answer.

    Yet when it comes to matters of the faith, I’m pretty flexible. If you had to make a label and slap it on me, it would probably say something more along the lines of? “seeker” or “mystic” and less along the lines of “literal” or “exact.”

    And as much as I’m fairly grey in describing my process for Scriptural interpretation, I am a big fan of resources. Of exploring context, history, and original text.

    And I’m just not that smart to do it on my own.

    Enter books like this week’s giveaway – Busted by Fred von Kamecke.

    Fred Von Kamecke is assistant pastor at The Chapel in Graslake, Illinois and an adjunct professor at Bethel College. He has also served as an adjunct at Trinity Evangelical Divinity School (TEDS) where he also received his PhD in New Testament theology and exegesis. He teaches in the area of New Testament studies.

    That means he’s really edumacated.

    Fred wrote a book called Busted which researches misconceptions of the Christian faith.

    From the back:

    Following a brief summary of a recurring myth or misconception about the Christian faith, Fred explains why the myth is false and provides biblical and historical evidence in his response. He masterfully weaves together serious discussion with a touch of humor in his responses, all the while keeping the focus on the Scriptures. He avoids making fun of the people who hold views which differ from his own, but the views themselves are fair game.

    Fred has generously given us ten copies to give away to FlowerDust.net readers. To enter, leave a comment with a question about the Christian faith you’ve always wondered about. A myth. Something you can’t find an easy answer for. I’ll randomly choose ten commenters next week and email the winners with instructions. Use the Tweet This link to get double credit.

  • From Donald Miller to You…

    My friend Ben Arment is a genius. Not just a genius, but the kind who’s fearless, too. That makes him one of the biggest threats to the bad guys in this world.? You see, Ben had an amazing job with an amazing organization. But beyond that, he had a dream that would not leave him alone.

    So, what’s a guy like Ben to do? He leaves his job, moves thousands of miles away, and starts putting together one of the most creative experiences I’ve seen in a long time called Story.

    Both Michael Hyatt (CEO of Thomas Nelson) and Don Miller (author, speaker, and champion of cutest dog pictures on Twitter) are both speaking at Story. Last week, Don was in Nashville (where Michael and I live). Somehow the stars aligned and I was able to sit down with the two of them and have them share about what story means to them, a little about their own stories, and what they’ll be discussing at Story Chicago. (That video is coming in a few days!)

    Before Michael arrived to the video shoot, I pulled out my trusty Flip video camera and asked Don if he’d mind talking to you guys about his latest adventure, The Mentoring Project. He graciously agreed, and so, without further adieu, I’d like to present you Mr. Miller himself.

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    I haven’t talked about an organization like The Mentoring Project on my blog before, simply because I’m not familiar with many like it. The statistics Don shares in the video should be a wake up call to us all. As the church, we pray and pray and pray for opportunities to make a difference and we often have them right in front of us.

    What can you do? Easy. You can cover the cost of supporting a child mentoring relationship. I have been supporting in this way for a few months now. If you’re part of a church, find out how your church can partner with TMP to help in your own back yard. And if you want to be a mentor, you can read more about that too.

    Because TMP has literally just taken off, they’re currently working within the Portland area, where they’re based. However, I think it’d be handy for them to take a pulse on interest levels around the country, so when it’s time to expand even more, it makes it that much easier to already have some people lined up, excited, and ready to dive in.

    What’s an organization you’ve discovered and fallen in love with lately?

    (BTW, you can download a free sample Chapter from Don’s new book A Million Miles in a Thousand Years by clicking here.

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