It never ceases to amaze me when people say with shock:
“A woman could never, EVER be addicted to porn.? Never!”
For those of you who think that, let me tell you something.
I was.
And your theory is wrong.
Here’s a bit of my story.
It never ceases to amaze me when people say with shock:
For those of you who think that, let me tell you something.
I was.
And your theory is wrong.
Here’s a bit of my story.
So I was recently having a great conversation with a blogger, who is a mother (yet I refuse to call her a mom blogger because, well, she is so much more!).
She gets a million times more traffic than I do, a million times more comments, and sometimes a million times more drama.
She talked about a friend of hers who has a really high traffic blog who gave up comments for Lent.
I’ve never given up squat for Lent.
But this really struck me as something I might need to do.
I started blogging because I love writing and I love conversation.? And I get that conversation would be non-exisitent for that time.
But honestly, comments feed my ego sometimes. More than I’d like.
Or at their worst, they damage my ego.
Am I willing to lose risking readers and traffic because the comments are turned off?
Would it do more harm than good?
Or do I just need to do it because I have invested too much into the “worth” comments give me?
Or should my blog just take a break for Lent completely?
Those are some things in my head that I’m working through.
And they affect you.? So I’d be curious as to what you think.

If you didn’t already know, I am a major, major fan of the people at Healing Place Church.? I had the opportunity to hang with some of their staff and volunteers back in December.? Serving the homeless and then going on the Midnight Outreach was one of the most profound experiences of my life.? It’s been two months and I am still processing it.
When I came back to Cross Point after my trip to Baton Rouge, I couldn’t shut up about how HPC is just oozing the love of Christ in simple acts of service.? Now Ryan, our missions pastor at Cross Point and Jenni, our Executive Director, are going to go experience the DNA of Healing Place.
Something else we’re doing, and that YOU have an opportunity to do, is SERVOLUTION!? Dino wrote a book with the same title, which I highly recommend you order millions of copies of.? But what’s amazing is the week leading up to Easter, they are challenging churches to just get out and serve.
It’s that simple!
From the Servolution website:
7 Days of Servolution is churches from all over the world coming together to express the love of Christ to the people in their communities through simple acts of kindness and generosity. From April 3rd through the 9th we are asking you to partner with us and churches from all over the world and bring that example set by Jesus to the people in your community. As you know this is the week leading up to Easter weekend. We believe that this is a great opportunity to invite people from all over your community to come out and be a part. Many times it’s during those weekends that people are the most receptive to the Gospel message and we want to help do all that we can to fill churches everywhere for people to have an opportunity to experience the love of God through salvation.
Cross Point is doing it.? And you should too.
This morning, I felt like I should pray to have an opportunity to help someone out financially.? We aren’t loaded with extra money, but we both have our jobs, can pay our bills, and have some left over at the end of the month which I know is more than a lot of people.? Within a few minutes, I checked my Facebook and there was an opportunity right there. BAM. Love it when that happens.
I know many of us in our churches pray that we will have opportunities to share grace and truth and hope with our communities.
I am thinking the biggest opportunity we’ve ever had is staring us right in the face and we don’t even realize it.
We are living in a financial crisis.? We all know our economy sucks right now.? I see a lot of emails about people losing their jobs, not being able to afford heat or food (food pantry/food stamp usage has gone up 32%).? People are living in cars.? On the street.? Wherever.
What are we doing about it?
Seth had a post today along the lines of thinking creatively in order to produce a different outcome.
Creativity changes the game, whatever game is being played. “We’re going to run out of cash by the end of the year,” is accurate unless you count creativity into the equation. Then the accurate statement is, “Under the current rules and assumptions, we’re going to run out of cash…” Big difference.
Let’s face it…churches tend to get stuck in ruts.? We do things because it’s the way either we’ve done them before or someone else has done them before.? We look for safety.? We want protection.? We want to be guaranteed success.? (Whatever that means.)
We ask for opportunities…WELL, HERE WE GO.
You want to “reach people?” What are some ways you’ve done this before? Sending out postcards? Investing in something fancy that will wow people when they arrive?? Sure…those things have merit.? They’ve “worked” before, so let’s stick with them!? That’s what we think.
RUT ALERT.
We, as the church, have a HUGE opportunity to help our communities.? What if you didn’t send out that mailer and instead, spent the thousands of dollars paying people’s heating bills or stocking up a food pantry?? What if we held off on an expensive purchase and threw a block party and got to know our neighbors?
The truth of what we communicate doesn’t change.? But how we communicate it SHOULD change, because part of how our message comes across is what we use to give that message!
We always talk about the televangelists who begged for money.? Oh, how they so desperately needed it…as they paid for premium airtime and wore fancy clothes.
That message? They don’t really need the money.
Our message is one of love.
One that puts others first.
But what are our mediums of communicating that message saying?
Does the way we do things line up with our message?
Are you willing to get out of the rut of safety and change it up?
First, today (February 5) is the last day you can register for the Catalyst One Day event in Atlanta and get the best rate.? I can’t wait to go! Working with Craig at LifeChurch.tv was an awesome experience, and I really can’t wait to see what God’s teaching him these days.? Catalyst One Day is February 26 at North Point Church in the ATL.
Now, remember a few weeks ago when Los, Jon and I did our goofy Mogulus announcement (followed by some? live video ping pong?)? We announced that after Catalyst One Day, we are doing a special “Off the Blogs” gathering that evening.? So, you go to One Day, you eat dinner, and you come to the “Off the Blogs” event.
I’ll be posting more information about OTB, as well as a place to register for it if you aren’t attending One Day, as well as some general thoughts behind what kind of movement we know will begin as a result of this gathering.? It is going to be amazing.? God has been igniting a common passion in us, and we think in you as well as people who form the community on our blogs.? A big thank you to Catalyst for sponsoring and supporting this idea.? We love those peeps.
Save the date:
February 26, 2009
7 pm
Christian Church Buckhead
with Carlos Whittaker, Jon Acuff and me, hosted by Pete Wilson
PS – if you are interested in volunteering at the Off the Blogs event, please shoot me an email here.? We’ll need some greeter type people, and some people that are just open to helping however.? Nothing difficult.? Promise.
Mas later.
I am sorry that I don’t follow you on Twitter.
It was funny at first. I even jokingly called myself a Twitter Diva because I don’t follow many people.
Recently, some people have actually sent messages that their feelings are hurt because I don’t Twitter.? Someone actually found my blog by typing “Anne Jackson Twitter Diva!”
I’ve been accused of only using it to market my brand, or my book, or my whatever.? So, I thought I’d go public on two big reasons why I don’t follow many people.
Direct Messaging to me = another inbox I can’t keep up with. I already have two email accounts – work & personal.? You can always email me. I prefer it that way anyway.
I’m a very private person. I keep my cell phone number held very close to my vest.? And since I’ve started traveling more, I use my phone for Twitter more than I use my computer.? Even if I used TweetDeck or another third party app, it wouldn’t work for my schedule.? Since there’s no way for me to group or sort things the way my funky little brain needs it on my phone, I have to keep it super simple.? If I follow everyone, that would pretty much mean everyone could send me a DM, which would mean everyone is texting my phone.
And I’m sorry, but I love my down time too much to have DMs going off all the time.
Don’t get me wrong – I LOVE Twitter. I LOVE the interaction. I LOVE you!
Let me prove my love.? I have searches set up through my RSS feed with keywords I like to follow so I’m able to have conversations with people I don’t follow.? Don’t believe it?? Click here and you’ll see I’ve been pretty consistent with @-responding to people across the board.
Do I wish I really could follow people and not have my brain explode.? Sure. Hats off to the people who do it and do it well.? There are many. I am not one of them.? And aside from the fact this whole post reminds me of high school drama, if I’ve ever offended you by not following you on Twitter.? I’m really sorry.
Know that I’m still reading…I’m still here…even if I don’t follow you on Twitter.
A few of us Cross Point people are going to Unleash on March 12 and we can’t wait!
I’ve never been to NewSpring before and have been wanting to for a couple of years now…plus, getting to connect with other pastors and leaders is one of my favorite things in the world to do!? And with 2000 people there I’m sure there are quite a few leaders I could learn a ton from while I’m there!
AND IT’S REALLY STINKING INEXPENSIVE!? LIKE FIFTY NINE BUCKS INEXPENSIVE!
From the website:
Unleash is a one-day conference hosted by NewSpring Church and specifically-designed to challenge, encourage and motivate church leaders to take action in reaching their communities for Jesus Christ. Unleash 2009 happens on March 12th at our Anderson Campus and features two main sessions from Senior Pastor Perry Noble, tons of breakout sessions and quite a few creative and technical tricks up our collective sleeve. Southern hospitality awaits you.*
(Emphasis mine…I fully expect that “southern hospitality” means Tony Morgan will be giving out hugs to everyone.? And that Perry will be serving us buttery biscuits upon our arrival.)
Okay, okay, okay…so what’s with this “FREE” tickets thing?? Well, since I was going to be blogging about Unleash and all, I decided to ask Tony for a free ticket to give away.? He fired back with something along the lines of “One ticket? You are super lame. How dare you even ask me for such a simple thing.? ONE? Come on, Jackson. You just want ONE ticket? How about FIVE free tickets? So someone’s entire team can come? Because it’s all about the team.”
Okay. Maybe I made the first part of that up.? But he really did want to give away five tickets so a whole team could come.
Uh, deal.
So I’m giving away FIVE free tickets to Unleash!
To enter, leave me a comment telling me what creative thing you’re going to do with the money you’ll be saving by not having to pay and I’ll pick someone at random on Wednesday sometime…whenever I feel in the mood to end it! :)
And if you don’t win – just register! But you better hurry.? It’s super close to being sold out!
Ready? Go!
i’m guilty of name dropping.
i’m guilty of only feeling confident when (insert important person’s name here) tells me i have value.
i’m guilty of saying one thing and doing another.
i’m guilty of not following through.
i’m guilty of being so self absorbed, i make you think i care…but i only care because i’m getting something out of it too.
i’m guilty of saying i’m going to pray for you and i don’t.
i’m guilty of pretending i don’t know the answer, when in reality, i just don’t want to help you.
all this to say, i’m guilty of being selfish.
a lot.
and it kind of hit me today, when pete was talking about whoever is the least…
i know i can get caught up in the junk of caring about who i’m associated with.
because the right people take you to the right places.
and those right places will leave you satisfied.
which is a load of bull.
and i think of who jesus associated himself with…
failures. sinners. the outcasts. the sick.
the untouchables.
nobody that would ever win a popularity contest.
or help him win a popularity contest.
but that’s why he was here.
that’s why we are here.
to be
and to be with
the least.