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  • Don’t Build Your Platform, Build Your Message

    Ok, so, we’ve debunked the myth that building a platform is the most important thing for an emerging artist and instead discussed how building character and relationships first will eventually lead to a more solid way to spread a message.

    Here is the third and final part of this lil’ series:

    Effort #3

    Don’t build your platform, build your message.

    It sounds a little over-simplistic, I realize, but hear me out. If you’re anything like me, once something has implanted itself so deeply in your heart, you want to shout it from the rooftops.

    I remember being 24 years old and intensely passionate about originality in the church. This was about the same time when a lot of contemporary churches were making sermon series parodies of popular TV shows and movies – including my own church. Coming from a creative corporate background, and being a rule-follower, the copyright implications alone were enough to make me uncomfortable. But I also believed (and still believe) that there is a huge difference between inspiration and emulation, and so many churches were falling into the emulation category.

    Sorry. Soapbox over.

    Anyway, I had voiced my opinions (passionately) having the platform of Director of Communications/Media and had been repeatedly shot down. A few months into my position, I attended a small conference where Rob Bell spoke and later had some down time where he invited anyone to come and hang out. Just two or three of us took him up on it. I asked him a question about originality in the church, shared my thoughts, and he simply said,

    “Don’t let your passion become annoying.”

    Ouch!

    I’ve learned a lot in the last five years and have realized the importance of building a message through more than just passionately vocalizing it. To build your message, you have to continuously ask yourself, “Why do I believe this?,” “What are the implications of the message?,” “What’s required of me to dedicate this season to this message?,” “Is there a need for this message?,” “How can I learn more about this and sharpen my own knowledge and passion?”

    Building a message takes time. It takes repetition of simple communication. It takes being able to handle criticism and even change the course if it’s not the right one. It takes flexibility. It takes commitment.

    Your message should be timeless, and not trendy.

    Sure, trendy is catchy. Trendy is noticeable. But trendy is not remarkable.

    Having a message spread wide and having your message resonate deeply are two very different things. They are not mutually exclusive, but more often than not, we settle for a season of brief popularity.

    If your message is as important as you think it is, take the time and expend the energy to make it stick…to allow it the time to embed in the hearts of others. When others are influenced as much as you have been, it will continue to spread both deep and wide in a meaningful way.

  • Don’t Build Your Platform, Build Relationships

    It’s been a trip to read a few of the emails I’ve received since shutting down my personal Facebook. If you don’t spell out everything, people make assumptions. Here are a couple of my favorite “Is this really why you shut down Facebook?” questions:

    • Were you being tempted to get involved with another man?
    • Were you addicted to the games?
    • Did you and your loved ones fight about the amount of time you spent on Facebook?

    Allow me just a moment to clear the air — NO! None of those. I spent a few minutes one day a week on Facebook. I didn’t play a single game, ever. And um, no…, I’m happy to say I didn’t have any issues with boundaries. :)

    Yesterday, we talked about building character…today…

    Effort #2

    Instead of focusing on building your platform, build relationships.

    Online, that’s why I’ve decided to keep blogging and using Twitter and not have a personal Facebook account. The messages, invites, and apps just got overwhelming. With blogging, Twitter, and a “fan” page, I feel like I can actually have conversations with people and interact pretty easily.

    I’d rather connect and converse intimately with a handful of people who share the same passion, encouragement, and values than with a bunch of people who I would just be barking to. Sure something may stick now and again, but it’s not as meaningful as it could be.

    Offline is just as intentional. There are a handful of people that have been placed in my life to learn from, to grow with, and to also encourage and I want to be open to having these relationships flourish.

    Whether online or offline, relationships that give people permission to talk and listen (and know they are being heard) are what help a message solidify and spread.

    Your thoughts?

  • Don’t Build Your Platform, Build Your Character

    If I had a dollar for every time somebody asked, “How can I build an online platform?” I’d probably have more money than Oprah. Okay. Maybe not that much money, but I’d definitely be a little better off.

    With social media being the giant that it is today, every artist is attempting to discover how they can build a larger online audience. Many people think that’s the missing ingredient from their big break, and so they pour a ton of energy into creating a platform.

    To begin, I think the idea of building a platform is bogus. Instead, I think there are three other ways we can intentionally spend our efforts into creating movement behind a message. And that’s what we’re going to discuss a little this week.

    Effort #1

    Instead of focusing on building your platform, build your character.

    A platform is what other people see and hear you speak from. It’s what you’ve decided to allow to be public. It’s the mouth of your message.

    But what’s behind that mouth? If you’ve spent all your time and energy dressing up the platform, but you haven’t spent any time building your character and integrity, your message won’t have two legs to stand on. It may look pretty from the outside. It may even look perfect from the outside, but when push comes to shove, your platform is built on sand and will easily crash down when the first wave hits. It won’t matter how flawless your platform appeared to be. Your message will be lost.

    Spending time building the inside before you spend time building the outside is time well spent.

  • I Can’t Wrap My Mind Around It…

    Unfortunately (and if you follow my Twitter account you already know this), I got pretty sick Thursday night. As in wake-up-at-2:30AM-Emergency Room-CT Scan-sick. After it came back all clear for appendicitis and other scary things, I thought I’d just fight through whatever it is and press on to Atlanta.

    I picked up my rental car, literally had everything packed up and was heading back into the house to lock up when I was overwhelmed by the contents of my stomach. My temperature is all funky and I can barely move without throwing up. And it has been a long, long time since I’ve thrown up. Like eight years.

    Part of me knows this is a spiritual battle and that part of me is second guessing my decision to stay home. What if I was supposed to move along in spite of being sick and I made the wrong choice? Another part of me thinks, “Hey, people get sick. You got sick. It’s out of your control.”

    So I’m torn.

    No doubt God is in control of all of the circumstances at hand and everyone who has worked so hard to make this weekend happen is being more than gracious and patient and loving.

    I’m just having a hard time understanding…knowing I am probably overthinking everything…but I’m struggling, you guys.

    Thanks for your prayers and love and encouragement. I know a lot of you have been in situations like this before and I could honestly use your wisdom right now.

  • A Prayer for You…A Prayer for Me…

    This weekend, I have the privilege of speaking at Oak Leaf Church in Cartersville, GA. I have admired Michael and what the people at OLC are doing in their community for the last couple years. I’ll be speaking about God’s plan for poverty and the people of Oak Leaf will have a chance to sponsor children through Compassion after each service. (Service times are Saturday at 6 pm, Sunday at 9 and 11 am).

    A few prayer requests:

    • Please pray for me…I have spoken multiple times on multiple days before, but not like this. I’m excited, but think it has got to feel really weird to say the same thing three times! I just want to show up and let God do His best through me.
    • Please pray for the people at OLC…that they will see and understand God’s heart for the poor, their role in his plan for poverty, and that they will take whatever the next step is on their faith journey…whether it is believing for the first time, or deciding to take a big leap of faith and do something crazy!!

    Your turn. How can we pray for you this weekend?

  • BOOK GIVEAWAY – Killing Cockroaches

    Well, this is ironic.

    killingcockroachesI had the good intent of getting this post up about five hours ago, but you know what? I had a mess of random things come up in my schedule and I’ve literally spent most of my day away from my computer.

    If, by some chance, I would have actually LISTENED to my friend Tony’s wisdom in his book Killing Cockroaches, I might have been able to plan, delegate, say no, redirect, and focus a little better.

    Lesson learned.

    Again.

    So, before we get to the book giveaway stuff, you have to know Tony’s going on tour. I don’t know if he’ll be giving out hugs, if he’ll have pyrotechnics, or even a 300 pound body guard with zero body fat escorting him to and from his Prevost, but regardless, if he’s in your area, you have to have to be a part of the tour. And it’s cheaper than taking your team out to lunch. If you took them to the Melting Pot and not McDonalds, I mean.? Details are here.

    Tony has been generous enough to donate ten copies of Killing Cockroaches to the Anne Jackson Book Giveaway fund. To be entered, leave a comment having to do with anything roach related – literal or metaphorical – and be entered. I’ll pick winners from both this giveaway and the Mad Church Disease giveaway next Thursday and the winner shall be notified via electronic post. (That’s email). Use the TWEET THIS button below to earn double credit.

    Ready? Go.

  • The Drawbridge

    nouwen-drawbridgeYou must decide for yourself to whom and when you give access to your interior life. For years, you have permitted others to walk in and out of your life according to their needs and desires. Thus you were no longer master in your own house, and you felt increasingly used. So, too, you quickly became tired, irritated, angry and resentful.

    Think of a medieval castle surrounded by a moat. The drawbridge is the only access to the interior of the castle. The lord of the castle must have the power to decide when to draw the bridge and when to let it down. Without such power, he can become the victim of enemies, strangers, and wanderers. He will never feel at peace in his own castle.

    It is important for you to control your own drawbridge. There must be times when you keep your bridge drawn and have the opportunity to be alone, or with those to whom you feel close. Never allow yourself to become public property where anyone can walk in and out at will. You might think you are being generous to anyone who wants to enter or leave, but you will soon find yourself losing your soul.

    When you claim for yourself the power over your drawbridge, you will discover new joy and peace in your heart and find yourself able to share that joy and peace with others.

    -Henri Nouwen, The Inner Voice of Love

    At first when I read this, I couldn’t decide if I was convicted or turned off.

    “But I want my life to be open to everyone.”

    Alas, as I thought about it more, I realize he didn’t say “never lower the drawbridge and stay safely inside your castle.” Instead, Nouwen enforces the importance of emotional boundaries. Boundaries which need to be in tact to make you strong so you can accomplish your unique, global purpose. Jesus did it in Luke 4.

    I think if we look at his context, maybe we can feel a bit more free to occasionally retreat and replenish.

    How do you do at controlling the drawbridge? Do you agree or disagree with what Nouwen is saying?

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  • Go After the Biggest Dream in Your Heart

    I was having a little Twitter chat with a friend of mine yesterday – one who has been a big cheerleader in my life. After sending me a bit of encouragement about the roads I’m taking, and ones I am considering taking over the next six months to a year, he said this:

    Go after the biggest dream in your heart.

    I don’t know about you, but I know for me, the biggest dream in my heart is scary. It’s crazy! It doesn’t make sense.

    I find myself asking, “God…is that really you?”

    And yesterday I heard Him tell me, “If it doesn’t make sense, it probably is me!”

    God asks us to do things that don’t make sense.

    In fact, a preacher chick I admire once said to me, “there is NO NATURAL way a supernatural destiny can be mapped out….”

    So as my friend said…Go after the biggest dream in your heart.

    Especially the ones that don’t make sense.

    God’s your provision. Get out of the way and give Him a chance to prove it to you.

    What’s the biggest dream in your heart?

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  • Surprise Book Giveaway – Mad Church Disease!

    Normally I reserve Thursdays for book giveaways but I discovered something today that I wanted to celebrate!

    (We’ll still be doing our typical Thursday giveaway too!)

    I found out that Mad Church Disease is on its third run of printing and wanted to say THANK YOU!

    And as a thank you, I have five copies to giveaway! Actually…ten…one for you, and one for someone you think needs to read it!

    Just leave a comment telling me one thing you are doing to stay healthy and you’ll be entered.? Use Tweet This below and be entered twice!

    Good luck!