Author: Anne Marie Miller

  • I Ain’t Sayin’ She’s a Gold Digga

    money

    One of the most frequent complaints I hear about some churches is how they’re always asking for money. Teaching about money and what the Bible says is important, and there is definitely room for some churches to do more of that. But you also have your extremeists who are all about money and how they need more…and more.

    I’ve been part of three different churches who collect offerings in three different ways. One, we would take our offerings to the front during the service. Another, boxes were located by all the exits so you could drop it off whenever, but mainly as you entered or exited. And lastly, the traditional passing the plate.

    There were benefits of each one. The first church was a small church and they were full of faithful givers. For the size of the church and the demographic, how far their money went didn’t make logical sense. The second church, it was easy to see that they cared about not being all about money. The third (and my current church), honestly, at first it was weird for me to get back into passing a plate, but the more and more it happens, the more and more I see it as an expression of worship and setting an example of how we do worship through our finances.

    So, what is it for you? Do you pass a plate? Drop it off? Bring it up to the front?

  • Tagged

    I am usually a big opponent of tagging people. However, when someone as cool as Mark Waltz tags you, you can’t help but to oblige.

    First, let’s answer one question. Why is Mark Waltz cool? Mark is a pastor at Granger Community Church, and he and I have occasionally kept in touch over the last year and a half or so, after I attended one of their workshops last May. Although I’ve never met the guy face to face, one can tell he’s an authentic guy. He says people matter – and he means it. I love hearing about how his family’s doing…and those are the people who matter most.

    On to the questions…

    * One book that changed your life: The Barbarian Way – Erwin McManus. I realized I am, in fact, crazy. But that it’s okay. In fact, if you’re not…something might be wrong.

    * One book that you’ve read more than once:
    In Cold Blood – Truman Capote. My senior-year English teacher Mr. Bennett had a theory that Truman Capote wrote To Kill a Mockingbird instead of Harper Lee. Next time you see the movie Capote, keep this theory in mind as you watch Truman & Harper interact. The people who put this movie together definitely think Capote wrote TKAM too.

    * One book that you’d want on a desert island: Survive on a Desert Island – Claire Llewellyn.

    * One book that made you laugh: Are You there God? It’s Me, Margaret – Judy Blume. Yes, it was a long time ago. Maybe I need to read more funny books.

    * One book that made you cry:
    Anne Frank: The Diary of a Young Girl. I still have my copy I bought 16 years ago (and it looks like the one I linked).

    * One book that you wish had been written: How to be a Preacher’s Kid and NOT develop a complex about the Church

    * One book you wish had never been written:
    The Harry Potter books…I say this not because I think they’re full of witchcraft & evil, but because my friend has bought them, and they cost so dang much. When we’re in Scotland, we’re actually going to visit the West Highland Line, which is the train station they used in the movies.

    * One book you are currently reading: Cost of Discipleship – Deitrich Bonhoeffer. I’ve been reading this since 1999. It’s so intense it has seriously taken me that long.

    * One book you’ve been meaning to read: Revolution – George Barna. I’ve had about 20 people say I need to read it…but I have a rule about reading books…if it’s a trendy book, I’ll wait until it’s untrendy to read it.

    Now, in keeping with the rules of tagging, I am now supposed to tag people. But you all know me. I hate rules. So, instead of tagging five people – I tag YOU. Here’s the tradeoff – you don’t have to post it on your blog, but instead, I’d love to see your book list in my comments. That way, a little bit of cyberspace is saved and respected! I know I’m not as cool as Mark, so I don’t think I could legitimately tag anyone.

    Happy Tuesday.

  • Medication

    What are your thoughts on taking medicine for Depression or Anxiety?

  • Lesson Learning:

    I can’t save the world –

    (and that’s okay.)

  • The First Church of Forbes

    Every year, lists are published for the biggest and baddest churches. The fastest growing. The most innovative. The largest. On one hand, it’s great to see how more and more lives are being changed (assuming that the church growth is not just from church transfer) and to see what’s going on. A little inspiration now and then isn’t bad.

    But on the other hand…I wonder, why should we even care who gets on these lists?

    I read some Oswald Chambers the other day. He said,

    “Don’t rejoice in your successful service for [Christ], but rejoice because of your right relationship with [Christ]. The trap you may fall into in Christian work is to rejoice in successful service; rejoicing in the fact that God has used you. Yet you will never be able to measure fully what God will do through you if you have a right-standing relationship with Jesus Christ…it is actually by His mercy that He does not let you know it.

    I realize Oswald is not the gospel, but I think he brings up a good point. So many churches today say this like, “We are so humbled God has chosen to use us” … “We can only attribute our growth and success to God” … I’m sorry, but isn’t that like restating the obvious?

    Maybe I’m just being cynical in writing this, but of course God has chosen to use you. It doesn’t take a magazine or a bunch of parachurch organizations to figure that out. What is disconcerting about it all is the feeling of inadequacy many pastors of churches not on these fashionable lists experience. As I researched blogs of pastors and church leaders, I found more dissention than unity, more discouragement than motivation when discussing these lists.

    I know there isn’t some gory battlefield where churches duke it out to make it on these lists. These churches didn’t invent the list. They just end up there. After I began writing this post yesterday, a pastor friend of mine emailed me to say “Congrats, I see the church you work at made it on both the Outreach Top 100 Lists.” I didn’t even have a clue. I know we aren’t doing what we do to get our name in black and white on some list. And I realize it’s the same with the other churches.

    Maybe the problem isn’t with the churches, but with the society that has to reward everything…Is it just me, or is it sad to discover the culture in which we “do church” has cultivated another one of our famous christian subculture spin-offs.

    We have our own little version of The Forbes 100.

    A very smart man said, “If you can’t be idealistic in a church, something’s wrong.” Is it too idealistic to hope that pastors who see the apparent “successes” of highly publicized churches could put down their church growth magazines and tune out all the buzz words that annihilate the innocent voice that was the only thing they needed to obey? Is it too idealistic for churches who gain attention to say, “You know what? It’s cool you have a list and all, but I’d rather not be on it. We’re just being obedient.” Is it too idealistic to think that the American church culture could just slow down a bit – and instead of doing church…actually BE the church?

    I’m not opposed to learning or being sharpened – but like everything else, it needs to be balanced with obedience, humility, and grace. And please don’t misread this: I’m not proclaiming churches with large crowds are bad – they aren’t. I work at one, and it has been the most amazing thing to see life change happen all the time – to see God move in fresh ways.

    BUT…I don’t think any “Top 100” list encourages anything. Then again, I could be wrong.

    Oswald finishes his sermon by saying this:

    Our tendency today is to put the emphasis on service. Beware of the people who make their request for help on the basis of someone’s usefulness. If you make usefulness the test, then Jesus Christ was the greatest failure who ever lived. For the saint, direction and guidance come from God Himself, not some measure of that saint’s usefulness. It is the work that God does through us that counts, not what we do for Him. All that our Lord gives His attention to in a person’s life is that person’s relationship with God-something of great value to His Father.

    Let’s get back to our relationship with our Creator. Let’s get back to pure, unadulterated obedience.

    And let’s stop being useful.

  • Tuesday’s TMI

    PMS sucks.

    But not as bad as IBS. At least, that’s what Los tells me.

  • Weekend Thought…Blogging

    Honestly, I’ve been getting kinda worn out on blogging. Maybe it’s just a phase in my life, because I’ve been busy juggling work, 3 freelance projects and preparing for Scotland, all whilst trying to be a wife.

    In today’s culture, there are so many trends that come and go…I wonder if blogging is just one of them.

    What do you think?

    Blogging:
    –Here to stay or…
    –Will eventually fall off the radar?

    Have a nice weekend.

  • Vote on my new glasses!

    Someone stole my glasses at Mario Tricoci when I was getting my hair done last November. I’ve yet to purchase another pair, but the time has arrived.

    These are the two frames I narrowed it down to – which one do you like best? I know they both look too big for my head, but that’s just the camera phone warping my face. Please also pardon the cross-eyed look in photo #1…

    Glasses #1
    Glasses1

    or

    Glasses #2
    Glasses2

    I’ll probably get them on Saturday!

    Thanks for your assistance…

  • Celebrity Look-a-Like

    Has anyone ever told you that you look like someone famous? The first time it happened to me, I was in a Barnes & Noble & someone said I looked like Elisabeth Shue. A couple years later, some ladies I worked with said I resembled Melissa Joan Hart. No complaints on either, as both of them are quite pretty.

    Last weekend, our teaching pastor at church taught a message called “Spitting Image” and talked about a website, MyHeritage.com. On MyHeritage.com, you can upload a picture of yourself and it scans it for facial feature and gives you a few celebrities who share similar traits. I decided to go and try it for myself. Here are a few people I ended up with after submitting two photos.

    Anne H. Anne Hathaway

    Madeleine Madeleine Stowe

    Vivien Leigh Vivien Leigh

    Now, not only does this software match you with your gender, but it also pulls similarities from the other gender as well…I found the following matches a little disturbing:

    Larry Larry King

    Eddie Eddie Murphy

    Steven Steven Soderbergh

    Wow.

    You should try it. It’s super quick, totally free & completely hilarious! I’d love to hear who you end up looking like. Just go to MyHeritage.com and follow the instructions!

    Cheers!